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These would be those instant deal breakers of yours—he’s a smoker, a non-monogamist, a cat-lover, etc.—that instantly tell you to move on so you’re not wasting your time. “What are those three things that are not negotiable when you’re looking for a relationship?” asked relationship expert Dr. Melanie Mills. “Try not to include physical or financial attributes. Focus on character traits, personality type, and value systems.”
EliteSingles also offers tips throughout the site and blog to help singles improve their visibility and increase the number of matches in their inboxes. For example, EliteSingles says a well-filled-out profile receives 8x more messages than one that's sparsely filled out. People want to know as much as they can about their potential matches, so, on a dating site, less isn't more -- more is more.