You should probably know that I somehow manage to spill guacamole on myself every time I eat it, which is often. If you can get past that, you’ll probably enjoy getting to know me. I’m a nurse practitioner and I absolutely love my job and my patients. It’s hard work, but I bring a lot of energy to what I do and always have some leftover to get into trouble on the weekends at my fav. local bar. (If you play your cards right, maybe we can meet there.)
While it is important to include a photo in your online dating profile, you must be selective with which photos you upload. Use a recent photo (taken in the last year) that is a genuine portrayal of yourself. 80 per cent of our survey respondents said they would disapprove if their date turned up looking different from their dating profile. Resist the temptation then to use an old, flattering photo because it will only cause you problems in the long run. According to EliteSingles members, the worst common photo mistake is an image that is too revealing. 19 per cent maintained wearing sunglasses in a photo was a no go, followed by poorly photo shopped pictures with 17 per cent. So do it properly - get your friends or family to help you take a nice photo of yourself. A good tip is to take a photo outside. The natural light, particularly in the afternoon can be very flattering and bring out your best side!
We’d say SilverSingles is a pretty solid option because it has a simple interface and an overall positive rating on Google Play and the App Store. The SilverSingles app looks very similar to the SilverSingles online site — but with a cleaner look and mobile-friendly features. You can chat with potential dates while on the go thanks to this dating platform, and it’s completely free to download it and set up your dating profile.
Of course, not all dating sites and apps are totally free. Some have paid features, including the ability to see who’s liked and viewed your profile, that members have the option to get if and when they subscribe. This is an add-on to the basic free membership, so be sure to find out before you join a dating site what features are free and what costs a little extra.

Bill Murray Movies. Adventures. Fancy Cheese. If you like any of these three things, we’ll get along great. If you like all three, you could just be the love of my life. Either way, I’m a fun-loving girl who’s new to the city and looking to meet some nice people. If you’d like to get together sometime, send me your favorite Bill Murray quote and we can start chatting.
About me huh…  Well, I’d probably smile and say hi to you if we were strangers passing on the street. I believe in kindness, empathy, holding open doors, putting your phone away at dinner, and always making time to listen to a friend. And to throw you a loop… I’m really into the worst kind of horror movies, just the really really bad ones. Guts. Gore. All of it. If you’ve ever heard of Suspiria, please message me right now because we need to talk.
A shocking 52 per cent of members surveyed said they wouldn’t even open a profile without a profile picture. Relationship coach, Sam Owen explains that ‘We build up an idea of a person’s personality by looking at their photo, how they have posed, their facial expression, the clothes they are wearing and much more. If you provide people with those cues they feel they can make more of an informed decision as to whether or not to pursue you.’
Your profile isn’t just your first impression, in many ways it’s also the beginning of the conversation you’ll have with someone. If someone’s interested in messaging you, they’ll often go to your profile to find clues and hints of what to talk about, so as you’re writing about yourself think of things you could bring up that will make it easier for someone to come up to you. Whether it’s a favorite book, your relationship with your family, or the fact that you’re planning a vacation, little details they can ask you more about or comment on will make you more approachable. 

The gist: The mother of all dating sites (it debuted in 1995, five years before eharmony), Match is a tried and true option with over 20 years of perfecting the matchmaking process. They're actually so confident in their skills that they have an "I Met Someone" guarantee, offering six months of use for free if they don't make love happen for you within your first six months. And it must work to some extent, as they've gained the trust of upwards of 35 million unique monthly visitors, which is the highest of all current dating sites. That's a lot of fish in the sea. If you're feeling down, remember that your person is out there — you just might need help sorting through millions of people.

A double date is a great way to take the pressure off. Try going for Sunday afternoon lunch with your date and bring along a married couple you already know. The men can talk to each other as can the women hence allowing you to break the ice with your date in a slow and meaningful way. You'll have more time to assess your new friends personality on various social levels.

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